Holding on for dear life

This morning, I woke up wearing a furry feline hat. No, I have not gone into the business of turning pets into designer fashion. What I mean is I woke up to find my beloved, twenty-something cat Socks wrapped around my head, claws lightly gripping my forehead. My perimeter-breach alarm was just beginning to chime, which is why I woke up.

There have been a few times in the last couple of years when my husband and I have started to think that this is the beginning of the end for Socks. She has stopped eating for a few days at a time, has crept weakly around the house like a winter wasp (more on that some other time), and been found staring into empty space, yowling dolefully. My working theory is the more I cuddle her the longer she will live. And while my study is decidedly unscientific, I haven’t been exactly proved wrong yet, because, at the time of this writing, she is still very much alive.

I did some in depth research (meaning I read the first article that popped up on my search, and I liked what it said, so I stopped looking) says, of humans, that snuggling can lead to happier thoughts, a more trusting attitude, an easing of anxiety and stress, and can even strengthen the immune system and lead to lower blood pressure! Sometimes, however, one’s favorite human is unavailable, so a cat becomes the best candidate for the job.

I even found a website on how to cuddle a cat! Having had only three cats as an adult, two of whom are/were very long-lived, I can say that different cats have different druthers, so take heed to the advice that you must adjust your cuddling technique to fit your cat’s personality. Socks is most decidedly a super-snuggler, while Digby would tolerate a bit before whacking you a good one if you didn’t pick up on a subtler hint to lay off.  

And even though I don’t pursue this topic in a scientific manner, there are some who have. One study (at least one, that is; as I mentioned, I found an article that matches my preconceived notions, so I went with it) says that cuddling does indeed keep cats healthy.

So, I let dear old Socks do her worst. My sleep with her around is a bit of catch-as-catch-can, but I figure it’s worth it for us both.

Sources:

The 3 Biggest Advantages of Human Touch May Surprise You – PlushCare

How to Cuddle a Cat: The Ultimate Guide | BeChewy

Why Do Cats Like To Cuddle? | Cuteness

3 Comments on “Holding on for dear life

  1. Thanks for sharing this important research! The kids have been asking for another cat after we had to put down our beloved Charlotte last year, at the beginning of the shutdown no less. I am trying to convince myself that I’m ready for more future cat-related heartbreak…

    1. You are most welcome! And about getting a new pet–it’s always a risk, isn’t it? But even so, I say, Carpe cattem! Give the kids a hug from me.

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